Life after travelling

 Our life has changed a lot this year, work, school, extra curricular activities for the boys, a boat and swags. But we are still adventurers/explorers. We love getting out exploring this wonderful part of the country. 
  
But it just doesn’t feel like a place for us to put down roots. Matt and I often talk about it. Is it our nomadic lifestyle that we have lived for so long that is stopping us? Or is it just not quite the place for us? 
This kinda puts an uncertainty in our mind. What if there is no place that we want to put our roots down? 

Our old stomping ground (Echuca) we still refer to as “home” as our family and some of our great friends are there. It’s where the boys were born. It’s where we got married. It’s where our journey began. I’m not sure that’s where our journey is meant to end though. We do still love it there and we get so excited every time we go back “home”. But once again we aren’t sure it’s for us anymore. 

  
Then we contemplate buying another van and that excites me. I love the idea of adventuring again. But the boys … should they know what it’s like to put down roots? Do they really need to? So many defence and police families don’t. They have to move on every couple of years and their kids seem fine. Well adapted. So is it really any different if we do the same? Stay a couple of years in each place then move on. 
  
Then their is the emotional pull to be near our families. Our parents are getting older, the boys are getting older. While they have great memories of the time they have had with their grandparents, are we minimising the amount of memories they could have? Even with their cousins, aunties and uncles. Another couple of years and the boys will be doing their own thing and they won’t have that great connection with cousins like I did with a few of mine. 
  
  
All these thoughts and feelings run threw my head everyday. Then the weekend comes and I love my Friday night drinks with the mums I’ve become friends with. And I love Saturday and sundays exploring with my little family. 
We have made so many friends here that are so similar to us. They love exploring, fishing, boating and having a great time.

   
The community here is amazing too. Everyone is super friendly.We are loving our time here in the Pilbara. 

  

 Is there a place like this for us on the East Coast? Or is it the remoteness that has made this place like it is? 

Am I ever going to stop having these feelings? Am I ever going to make these type of friends again? 
Why are we so apprehensive about making the next change/leap? I find it so funny that we are toing and froing on this decision, the next journey. We just leaped when we decided to leave on the trip. Within a month we had the house on the market and had made plans. This time we can’t decide where to next, there is so many places we want to live. Whether to rent or buy. Whether we go country or city living. Whether we go cold weather or warm weather. 
I kinda wish some one would say you should go here. There is a job for Matt and good school for boys and it’s a great community. 

Some days I wish we hadn’t sold our house so we had somewhere to go. But even then I have doubts going back. Would we even fit in there now. We feel so different to the people that we were when were there. 

Any advice or if you want to offer us a job. Anything at this stage would be great appreciated😊

What’s “normal”?

As we look for a rental and talk about “normal” life. Our hearts are longing to continue our travelling journal. It just feels weird and almost wrong to think that we will be in one spot for along time.Our heart strings are being pulled in all different directions and none of them feel right, except the one that is pulling towards travelling. 

We just feel as though we aren’t finished yet. There is just so much to still see in our beautiful country. 

Is this normal? I know lots of travelling families feel like this. Does the feeling go away? Or do you just suppress, ignore the feeling and hope it goes away? How do we go back to a “normal” life? 

We love the freedom that comes with living in a van. If things don’t work out you just move on to the next place. The freedom to just say stuff it we’ve had enough let’s go somewhere new. Settling down means we can no longer do that. We have to just put up with it and make it work. I just don’t know how we’ll go with doing that. 
   
 It makes me second guess everything we have been raised to believe, everything we are taught. What is “normal” life? Who says that is “normal”? Is your “normal” meant to be my “normal”? Why do people judge your “success” in life by the possessions we have? Why don’t people judge your success by your experiences? Or how happy you are? 

Who said we need all those things in our life? Doesn’t that just add more stress and pressure to your life therefore less happiness and your time? 

Who said that the boys have to fit into the box to have a “normal” life? Does it really matter how smart they and if they are meeting milestones right now? Or is it more important for them to learn at their own pace and learn what they love so they want to keep learning? Isn’t it more important for them to have life skills that they’ll actually use every minute of the day rather than stuff they’ll never get their heads around and never actually use again once they have completed schooling. And in the mean time someone picks on them for being “dumb” and destroys their self confidence and self worth. 

Maybe communication skills are the most important thing for a kid to learn, solving conflict, learning to respect friends and their values, learning how to handle different situations and different moods. And there is no better classroom for learning this then the gypsy lifestyle. As a parent/homeschooler I am most proud of my boys when I see them talking to all sorts of different people. When I see them including everyone in camp ground/caravan park. When they know no barriers or lack self confidence they see a kid of any age, any sex, any race and they strike up a conversation and they are instant friends. This is a skill that gypsy kids have. You can pick them when travelling. In “normal” society we influence them and they inherit our anxiety’s and don’t take the risk because of rejection. No one likes being rejected. But gypsy kids just want someone to play with so they’ll play with anyone, there is no rejection there is just friendship of some sort.

  
Got a bit off track, so back to my thoughts. 

What is “normal”? Is my “normal” allowed to be different to yours? Is my “normal” wrong or is yours? Is there a right or wrong way to live life? Does any of it really matter, as long as we are all happy and living our best life? 

I do worry about EVERYTHING, if we are screwing up our boys by living this way. But I’m sure I’d be worrying all the same if we were living a “normal” life too. So long as they know we love them and we always have their best interest at heart and we will always be here for them. Does the rest really matter?   

 To settle and join the rat race again or to top up our funds and continue to travel maybe forever? That is our big decision. Our big uncertainty. 

The gypsy lifestyle does take you over and changes your way of thinking. I love it. Living our best life. Xo

Gippsland

We decided to go down through Gippsland, as I hadn’t been down there since I was a kid, and Matt had never been down there. I have a lot of family history there and lots of family in Gippsland. 

We were amazed at how beautiful it is down there. It was March so the weather was warmish which made us liked it even more. 

The caravan air conditioner had to get fix, so we left the van for the day in Warragul and headed out to Nerrium South to find where my dad had gone to school. We also found the farm where he grew up and the farm my parents shared farmed on. 
    
I was quiet surprise by Nerrium South it was a great little town, very tidy and pretty and had an awesome playground for the kids.

We then went in search of the Ada Tree which was left during the harvest of the old forest and is now one of the biggest trees of its kind. Boys were amazed at how big it was. 
  
  
We then went to the Noojee Trestle bridge. A beautiful old wooden bridge that was used to cart timber out of the forest. It is amazing. 

  
  
  
So beautiful green and dense forest down here. We picked up the caravan and then camped Wirilda Environment Park at Yallourn North. It was a great little camp spot. With creek running through and weir a little way up and the pump house. Was perfect. On the way there we past the Yallourn Power Station boys were very impressed by the process which gives us power. And all the steam. 

  
The next day we were very lucky to be able to camp at my cousin/god father’s beautiful house. The boys were in heaven. I was stressing to the max, a brand new house and 2 untamed boys. It was so lovely, we were made very welcome. We had a family dinner to see everyone, which was fantastic. 

The next day we left van and drove to Lou Yang power station to see coal mine and power plant together and operating. It was amazing the size of it all. 

  
We then drove to Tarra Bulga info centre and took the walk over the suspended bridge. It was drizzling but made the walk pretty cool as it felt like a rainforest. There were so many cool trees and different tree ferns. Matt of course shook bridge, so then Nate didn’t want to cross but eventually he did it. Was great spot. 

  
  
  

  We then decided to keep driving around out there and we found Tara Falls which was a beautiful little falls. We then came through some little towns that were in such a beautiful place. Then up on to farm country. 

That night we caught with some of Matt’s friends that he work with in Darwin. They were so lovely and they let the boys trash their shed so the boys were happy.

The next day we said goodbye to my cousin/god father and his family. It was so lovely reconnecting with them after so long between seeing him. I will treasure it forever. 

I can’t believe we have never been to Gippsland before, it was so beautiful and so different from the parts of Victoria we normally visit. I loved it down. The forest and timber mill history, to farming countryside and then these power stations and massive coal mines. 

If you’ve never been do yourself a favour and go explore Gippsland. 
Take Care xo

Visiting our old home region

After the Flinders Ranges we went back to country Victoria to see our nearest and dearest friends and family. On the way through South Australia we stopped off at one of our favourite free camps Cadell and this time we enjoyed it more because Ethan didn’t knock himself out. Was so exciting being back on the Murray. To swim and fish in a river with no crocs. Didn’t realise how much we missed it.  ““““”””” 

The next day we passed the place that makes our classy wine so we stock up and got to watch them unload the trucks.

  
That night we free camped in Nyah Recreation Reserve which I had wanted to stay at every time we have past through but was always to close to home this time we weren’t rushing so stopped in and it was a great spot. 

Next day we made to Echuca/Tongala where we spent 10 days catching up with family and friends. It was so nice but never long enough. Got to meet my new niece which is always special. 

 
  
We did a detour via Wedderburn to see some friends then we went and stayed with cousins in Seville which was amazing. Our kids had never met because… really life is busy and we take things for granted. The boys loved their new found cousins and their farm life on the edge of a city. 

 
  
  
They gave us some local attractions that we didn’t even know exist. Was so awesome finding these hidden treasures that we had been passing all these years.
We caught up with our 2 dearest friends in Melbourne which was so nice as we miss them and seeing their girls grow up. 

  They saw and support us through our children but we are missing out on their children growing which is quite hard. Thank god for Snapchat as we get to see the girls beautiful faces every week and see their developments. 
It was hard saying goodbye this time as we aren’t sure when we’ll back but it wasn’t as hard as the first time as we knew that there was so much to explore and we have made so many friends that we were going to visit. 
Take care 

xo

A quick update

Wow I can’t believe how long it has been since I have written a blog. Sorry so much has happened.Matt has gone back to work the perfect job at the not quite so perfect timing. We decided to just make it work. So we are a travelling fifo family. Which is working pretty well from the home end but I’m pretty sure it sucks big time for Matt working. 

The way we are doing it is we travel from one major airport to the next while Matt is on RnR. Then he goes to work while we explore the area. Then he comes back and we go on our next adventure. 

We have travelled up the east coast across to Darwin then across to Broome. I’ll will try and catch up on my blogs over the coming weeks.
I also completed my course I was doing which consumed a lot of time. 
We have still been homeschooling and boys are improving out of sight. 

I think it’s more me that struggles to comprehend where they are at. So I’ve probably held them back a bit but we are doing more and more challenging things and they are getting it which is surprising me so much. 

I think they are growing into wonderful little men. Don’t get me wrong they are far from perfect somedays though they amaze me with how amazing their attitudes are. Then the next day they do something crazy like punch each other or give me the worse attitude but hey they are boys and we are all far from perfect. I’m pretty sure their attitude comes from their dad. In fact, Ethan is growing so much into his dad, he has those same cheeky smart arse comments. Sometimes I want to smack him and sometime I can’t help but laugh, he frustrates me exactly the same way Matt does. It is kinda nice though. 

Natey has grown into his own person so much more this time travelling. He too has the same smart arse personally but is this kind, nature loving, adventure seeking boy. He finally is making his own friends and is standing up to his brother. He is super kind and caring towards little kids which surprises me everytime. 
Sorry for my slackness I will catch up on blogs. 

Take care xo

SA Outback

It’s been a few weeks since we were in Coober Pedy and the Flinders Ranges but thought it was time to do a blog.
We arrived at Coober Pedy and it was hot, dry and nothing but dirt to see. It’s a weird place when you drive through as it’s pretty much dirt and junk laying around. Buildings that look old and out dated. When you look past the main part of town there isn’t heaps to see but pipes sticking out of the ground and old shacks. 

 The things that we soon found out was that Coober Pedy, in a good year will receives 150mm of rain, otherwise there is not much water. So that explains the dirt and why things look so out dated. The dust and harsh environment just ages everything so quickly. The pipes sticking up are actually underground houses and the shacks are the front of them. When you realise that you see how big Coober Pedy is.   

 It is a unique place, out of this world. There is no place like it. It’s quirky and on the surface boring but once you start looking lots to do.

We were super lucky that our friends were caretaking Faye’s underground house and mine so we got our own personal tour which was so amazing to see how people live underground, the boys loved it. And the amount of effort gone into the mining and building of Faye’s place was crazy. She did it on her own. What a truly remarkable woman.

  We drove out to Crocodile Harry’s place which is quirky and creepy at the same time. But a must do while in Coober Pedy. We then drove to the Dingo fence and on to the Breakaways. The breakaways were amazing. The colours were incredible purples, oranges, whites and browns. In the middle of nowhere beautiful coloured soil.  

 
  
We had a look at the Serbian Church which was incredible. They have carved sculptures into the walls amazing.

  We went through the Desert Cave Hotel as they have a museum there which had lots of information on the aboriginal culture in the area, the making of the Stuart Hwy and of course Opals and it’s formation and mining. 

We walked through the Umoona Opal museum which covered formation and mining of Opals but always the fossils found in the area which was pretty interesting. 

Both had opal shops which I tried to talk Matt into buying me one but no such luck.

We did all this in one day which was information overload. My brain hurt at the end of it. You definitely need more time in Coober Pedy to explore it. We also found out that ground temperature there gets to 65 degrees. No wonder the van was hot.

We really enjoyed our time in Coober Pedy.

We left Coober Pedy and got to Lake Hart which is a salt lake and is pretty spectacular. It was really white this time. When we went to Darwin it wasn’t as white so I’m assuming that it has to do with water. There was even rain on the other on the horizon which was pretty cool. 

  We then continued on to The Flinders Ranges which was closed due to vermin control so we went and stayed in the Parachilna Gorge. It was a great spot. Some water flowing so the boys could play in it beautiful scenery. We took a drive to Blinman which is the highest town in South Australia. They use to mine cooper there. 

   

 Once the goat cull had finished we moved into Teamster Campground which was actually a four wheel drive track but we got the van through with care and great skill by Matt. We drove the Brachina Gorge drive into Wilpena with a detour to Stokes Hill Lookout then we drove back to campground by Bunyeroo Road. The views on each track were similar but also different. We were so glad we did these without the van attached as I don’t think our poor Jayco would’ve made it.  

 The guy at information centre told us that you can see fossils in the rocks where we were camping. So we went exploring and found them. And a cool Cave.

   
 The following day we checked out Sacred Canyon which was interesting and a bit of fun then we walked to Wilpena pound lookout then took the scenic route back to campground via Moralana drive which was to the south of the Flinders Ranges and was so different. It was more sort of grazing country, undulating hills and stations. Was great to see the differences.  

    
 The next day we left but we stopped at Hawker on way out and checked out Jeff Morgans panorama art gallery which was amazing. He is one patience and talented man. 

  While in the Flinders Ranges we showered alfresco which the boys loved and we made pet in a yellow footed rock wallaby which we all loved.
We love our beautiful, diverse country that is forever changing around us. 

Take care xo

 

The Red Centre

Not many people travel the “Red Centre” in Summer. It’s dry, it’s hot and everything is dead and dusty. We loved it. Hardly anyone around except backpackers, caravan parks had deals on so it was perfect for us to find our feet again freecamping and caravan parking til we got our groove again. It was perfect.This part of the country was amazing and boring. Miles between spectacular place. And a town called Alice Springs with a river named Todd that runs through it. The perfect combination just like our friends Todd and Alice that we had many great times with in Darwin. We choose to stay at Macdonnell Ranges Big 4 they had pay 3 stay 4 which was perfect for us a bit of power to run the air conditioner of a night to get good sleep while exploring through the day. But of course our air conditioner once again decided not to work. We contemplated getting it fix in Alice but decided because we were heading out freecamping and hopefully going to be getting cooler weather we’d wait til we get to Victoria where we can freeload while it gets repaired. So we thoroughly enjoyed their pools and not to forget to mention free pancakes on Sunday morning. Winning.

  
We drove up and looked out over Alice from Anzac Hill. Was a great view with a great memorial. We also did truckies hall of fame where we learned so much about Shepparton and some of the great truck drivers that came from there. It was fantastic. We also took a look in the mall and some of the aboriginal art it was great to see. We stocked up on supplies and struggled with the limited alcohol buying time. All just a learning curve.  

 

Anzac Hill

 
  
The MacDonnell Ranges both east and west were truly amazing. I’m no geologist but the rock formations were worth the hot, tiring walks. There was some water in the waterholes that made the walks a bit more enjoying knowing that you got to cool off in them. 

 

Trephina Gorge

 
Where we camped at Elery’s Creek big hole which had some warm spot and cold spots in the water. We found out that it was 9 metres deep and you could soon feel the water spring releasing water from below. The rocks here have a curve in their formation absolutely spectacular.

   

Elery’s Bighole

 
 

Ormiston Gorge

 
We moved on to Uluru staying at Yulara which had a good deal pay 2 stay 3. Yes thanks and with a pool. Perfect. 

The dirt/sand here was no word of a lie rusty red colour. I loved it. According to my non geologist national park rangers the red here and in Katherine is actually from the rocks rusting. Due to the oxidisation of the iron particles in the rocks. 

Red dirt

 The Rock was breathtaking, every single time we drove to it and from every angle … breathtaking. Even the boys were gobsmacked by it. We didn’t climb it due to extreme heat it was closed and the chance of rain. We did the Mala guided walk with ranger and it was full of great information and aboriginal stories and culture.

  
We also checked out Kata Tjuta/The Olga’s. We walked to the first lookout and down to the creek in the valley of the winds they two were just as amazing. But we really enjoyed the Walpa Gorge. There was water in it, lizards, rare wattle species and a cliff face apparently higher than the Rock and it’s completely vertical. I got dizzy looking up it.  

Valley of the Winds

  

Walga Gorge

 
We even got to experience rain in the red centre it was lots but we can say we saw it rain in the red centre. 

 

Rain at West MacDonnell Ranges

 
So much to see and do. We rush through it but I could go back and spend more time there exploring it more. Maybe in winter though. 

xo

Decision time again

And just like that our time in Darwin is done … well for the moment.
We have been to and fro since Christmas about what we should be doing with our life’s. Our bank account got to the figure that we needed it to so we can travel for about 12 months. So do we stay and cash up more and be able to travel leisurely and settle just in time for Ethan to start high school. Or do we go for broke and be happy with what we have and settle with a year or two for Ethan to catch up on things that he may of missed out on, before going off high school.
We decided to go for broke and see what pans out. 

When we set off on this adventure in 2015, we had next to no money and had what we could afford at the time. But the reason we set up was to spend time with our boys, as everyone knows you blink and your kids have grown up. We didn’t want that to happen to us, we wanted to spend time with our boys, quality, quantity time. We also had enough of materialistic things. We were stupid and wanted all those big things, a big house, a big car but at the cost of what? Working 2 jobs each to pay for it, so our kids wouldn’t appreciate it. And then they would complain what they didn’t have something, so you feel guilty that you work all the time and buy more crap to compensate. When we thought about it we didn’t want that stuff. What we wanted was memories with our boys. We had children to love, nurture and spend time with them, making memories. So that was it, decided let’s sell everything and move into a caravan and travel oz.
We got a bit lost again. Chasing money, for a bit more comfort and to help set us up when we finish. But how much money is enough? So we revalued what was important to us and this trip, our dream, is more important than materialistic stuff. That’s how we decided that now is the time to go. Chase our dream, finish our trip, do what we originally set out to do, create memories with our boys before they no longer want to be with us, go for broke and start our life’s again with a different prospective.
So Baker’s trip of oz is finally going to complete/do a trip. And we can’t wait. 

Take care xo

3 years on

Today marks 3 years since we hit the road on our adventure to travel Australia for what was meant to be 12 months. 
 

Our first van was 16 foot

  

Waving goodbye

 

I never know whether we can actually say we are gypsies or not. As the first 3 months we spend Travelling then the next 18 months we spend in the most beautiful city exploring and working and saving. Then we returned to Victoria for what should’ve been 6 months but after our hiccup with our van turned into 12 months with 6 months of that in a house. Then the last 6 months we moved to Darwin in our new van.

Not sure that we can say we have travelled Australia just yet but we have lived in a van now for 2.5 years with 6 months in a house. And I can’t see us moving into a house in the near future either we love this style of living. 

 

Our second van 17 foot

 
In 3 years we have had 3 vans 😂😂 And for now we are happy with our home on wheels. It is the perfect house for 4 people living permanently in it. 

 

our new van is 22 foot

 
I still love our old homes and they served their purpose but I am so grateful for the upgrade. 
In 3 years we have towed caravan’s 15,890kms that includes our couple of trips around Perth and sight seeing while out on those trips. And our trips to and from Perth then our trip up centre to Darwin. 

  
However this doesn’t include any of our adventures while back in Victoria nor our trips to Sydney nor our monthly trips to Melbourne airport. It is just our travelling kms. 
I have kept a budget majority of time except our time in Victoria which I now regret.

Whilst travelling for the 3 months we averaged $750 per week and that includes everything new tyres for caravan, new battery, major service, accommodation, food, petrol, entertainment and treats like ice cream, coffees, takeaway.

We stayed the majority of the time at free or low cost camps. We mainly did free entertainment things with a few paid activities.

Once we moved into caravan park in Perth our budget went up to $1000 that included suspension upgrade, new tyres for car, another service.

Once we started fifo lifestyle this went up to $1100 as we started doing things on RnR that cost money and having a lot more extra treats.

Since being in Darwin our budget is sitting round $1200 again making most of good income so have been doing a lot of paid entertainment and treats. But in general groceries are costing an extra $100 a week as nothing seems to last long in this humidity.
We love this lifestyle obviously after living like this for 3 years. We are now getting prepared to head off on a actual trip around Australia and we could stop again and work somewhere for 6 months or we may just travel who knows we change our minds like we change our jocks. And that is one good thing about this lifestyle is that we can change our minds when we want.

But a trip of some sort is getting closer to starting as our boys are getting older so we will need to be some what settled for high school years. 

Who knows what 2018 will hold for us. 
Take care xo

The End of 2017

What a year we have had, started off with us getting ready to set off on our 2nd attempt of a trip around Oz only to find major fault in our van which had us stay put in Vic/Nsw and move into house for awhile. Finally got van sorted and spend quality time with our families and friends before we decided to move to NT in our new van and put an end to FIFO life. 
We have met lots of great people and caught up with old friends. Reminding us why we love gypsy lifestyle so much.

We have had lots of highs with a few lows. 2017 has been a great year. But I’m looking forward to seeing what adventures 2018 has install for us. 

  
  

Happy New Year hope 2018 is a great year. xo